My suggestion as you think, make decisions, and discern how God would have you live is to ask yourself, “Is this the most loving way to do life? Am I loving my neighbor and y God by living where i live, by driving what I drive, by talking how I talk?” I urge you to consider and actually live as though each person you come into contact with is Christ.
Asking and reflecting on these sorts of questions points us in the right direction, but WE HAVE TO GET BEYOND ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS. We often have “aha!” moments but don’t act; in fact, we’re famous for it in the church.
— Francis Chan, Crazy Love